The best thing tht happend that i found this app to tell other about my feelings My friends go out with they say its an acc and when i tell them lets go out they say no and they trat me bad and they say its a joke and they sometimes curse me and i curse them back but I don’t like that they treat me badly i don’t know what to do i even don’t know if they like me they don’t go out with only one of them bc he was with me in our old school but they no last year i found out they mad a group without me named it no(my name) and I don’t know if they have another group when they went out with out me i was very sad i cried I don’t know what to do it was in Ramadan i saw the pic all of them in the pic even the guy in my old schoool he didn’t tell metha they were going out oneof them was sticking out his toung I don’t know what to do the beat thing that will happend when i go to new school

I have a psychological disorder and I need to take medication because of it. But sometimes I really don't want to take it People around me are also telling me that the medicine is harmful,making me addicted etc I don't know what to do

Hi, this is my first time using this app, and I'm hoping for some advices or literally anything. I'm a high performance athlete and i feel like my parents and coach want too much from me and I can't give the desired results. I always try my best. It doesn't matter how much i train I get worse, but they want more and more. They only want the medals and just ignore the fact that I feel exhausted emotionally and physically. I know sports are a big roller-coaster but it's just hard. I been doing it for many years but this is different, i have really bad thoughts and i realized i torture myself. I always think that i can't do it. When i talk about this to my parents they just joke about it, f**ing laugh at me...like some little kids. They say i just want attention. I feel lost, like a fool...

I spent most of my life thinking I’m fearless because nothing made me afraid not needles not blood not horror movies not rollercoasters until I discovered that this is the biggest lie I have ever lived in because I do get afraid in fact I have spent most of my life in fear I got so used to it I stopped realizing its fear every decision I ever took and every action I ever made was rooted in deep hidden muted fear I didn’t realize was there

I struggle to form deep emotional attachments or trust people fully. Outwardly, I seem normal, funny, and sociable, but inside I feel detached and closed off.Even with friends, I care about them but don’t feel strong emotional closeness, and I usually focus more on myself than relationships.When someone gets close to me or shows interest, I tend to pull away and become cold, often without understanding why.

It’s like I’m punishing myself for something and I don’t get the reason. My job is my dream job, I don’t pay rent, I’m independent, I have great friends. My only problem is that I need to lose some weight and that’s exactly what I’m sabotaging. I eat healthy but I always add something “bad” during the day or I eat late in the evening even when I’m not hungry and that’s what is keeping me from my goal. I feel anger all the time, it’s exhausting. And this thing with food and weightloss makes me even angrierrrrr. Please share your opinions

I have prblm that I don't like seeing or talking to ma dad even his existence is annoying I don't hate him but whenever I see him I become an aggressive person unlike when he's not around me I become very quiet person

I'm here to support and help anyone, and that makes me happy 🫶🏻🫂 Life is only once, so we must solve its problems and enjoy living it. 🎀🌹 For everyone who has been overcome by frustration, we are all brothers and sisters here.

Hi, today I came here to ask for some advice, or to hear from anyone who has been through something similar. I really want to continue my studies in a specific country, but my family refuses. They want me to go to another country where some of our relatives live, so I can have support and help there. The problem is that I don’t like that country at all. It feels dull and lifeless to me, and I don’t think I could feel comfortable or motivated there. On the other hand, the country I want to go to feels full of life and energy, and I know I need that kind of environment to stay active and do well. Both countries are in Europe, but I feel like the atmosphere would make a huge difference for me. What do you think about this situation

Hey , so I'm new here i kind of need some new friends coz I'm dealing with depression and just got hurt by my best friend because of her bf and it was my biggest heartbreak ngl Idi what im saying this i feel like I'm seeking attention while I'm not anyway if you ever need a new friend , thanks

I am a student who has just graduated from high school, now I am confused because I want to go to college but my parents do not allow me to go to college. Even though I had already told him all about my goals for studying, working while studying and looking for extra income to cover living expenses while studying. But, my parents just want me to work so they can support him and my younger sibling who is still in high school, My father passed away three years ago. My older brother and my mother have been paying for my schooling. I have big dreams and want to study abroad, But the people around me don't support me, even though I'm willing to work while studying. I just need permission and support before I go to college. Please, can someone give me advice and support?

I'm a 28 years old guy, and I'm in quite the changing phase in my life, I'm mostly digging through what everyone digs through, jobs, relationships, family etcetera, i don't what's wrong with me or if something is wrong with me, I've been this talketive guy for ages and very aware of whatever there is. I've had a break up with the love of my life around a year and a half ago, our break up was initiated by me, after we went through a series of arguments about our relationship (she mostly wanted to change somethings i didn't want to change, some were within her rights, some weren't, i honestly can't remember) after our break up she started having all these guys around her and all, and it made me jealous I'm not going to lie, i still have feelings for her or at least what i had with her. But ever since i haven't tried with anyone seriously and the fear of ending up alone is constantly clinging to the back of my mind, specially at my age and every one is getting married and all; lately i had a fall out with three of my closest friends One was a male who has been being an asshole for some time and wouldn't really quit being a douchbag in whatever we would do whether it's a hangout or gaming or anything he would just make fun of me or call me things and i didn't really like the consistency of it, we had a huge fight and we just went our ways, our friend group didn't exactly side with any of us, but they told me that that's how he is and everyone should just ignore what he does. My second friend is a female whom i knew from college days, we live in different towns we usually have phone calls to just talk about life and all, she lately started asking me all sort of questions about our friendship like what she means to me or what does she add to my life etcetera etcetera, until she just opened up about a subject of whether we judged each other and when, and honest as i am told her i did years ago when she did something, but we would fight if we talked about it, and she kept pushing and pushing until i told her about she expressed pure utter disgust to a joke about us getting married and it had me think of her as the girl who just thinks every guy wants to be with her and i didn't back then nor know, anyways it started this huge fight and i think I'm cutting her off after this. My third friend is a female ex co-worker, we worked in the same place for 4 years until we both quit, we kept contact after that, until lately she started constantly flirting with me, i honestly liked it, i liked the attention and she's a great person, but i had to ask about it all and she hinted at it as filrting and not something friendly, i played along a little and i asked her honest and raw and she said that we're real friends and that's what real friends treat each other, i was furious and hurt a little and immediately shut it off, she pretended like she didn't understand and i just left it as it is. My thinking after all this is whether maybe something is truly wrong with me, I'm not seeking validation or empathy or anything, i just want an external point of view, an advice or anything, something to keep me from falling out Ps: i am also religious and i am counting on god first, and that's my first go to, so easy of the religious advice

my childhood friend of 12 years randomly stopped talking to me a few years ago she basically removed herself from my life for no reason suddenly and out of nowhere and that broke me because I had no one but her and because she was my social crutch when she left she took my entire social life with her I had to be socially on my own for the first time in my life and I ended up spending a year in total isolation and that made it even harder to move on from her I have been trying to build myself from scratch ever since

I wasn’t safe expressing my emotions so I suppressesd them so bad that I stopped feeling them all together I was a heavy number nothing ever made me feel anything and because I started very young I didn’t know anything other than that, I would see people acted completly different than me everyone around me had so much feelings all the time and that led me to believe I’m broken and not normal which led to intense self alienation feelings which contributed to whole other stuff

Sup guys I don't how to start I finally find a stable job with good salary. but there's a chaos I'm my head . I feel empty and hollow , These days my behavior has been completely changed I'm seeking for attention or someone who I can express everything without being embarrassed. Pardon my eng And have a nice day

I am 23 years old I never had a gf before and never tried Until I entered university I noticed all around me have gfs constantly So I tried to get one but for the past 2 years all my efforts didn't work Which caused me to have doubts that I may have a flaw If anyone experienced this before what's your advice to me ?

Hi… this is my first time posting here so I’m a bit nervous. Lately I’ve been feeling constantly anxious and stressed, like my mind never really turns off. I overthink everything — things I said, things I did, even things that haven’t happened yet. It’s exhausting and sometimes it feels like I can’t fully relax, even when I try. I also feel stuck between wanting to improve my life and not feeling good enough to actually do it. I have goals — I want to do better in school, feel more confident in how I look, and just be a better version of myself — but my anxiety and overthinking make everything feel overwhelming. There are moments where I feel motivated, but they don’t last long before I start doubting myself again. I compare myself to others a lot and it makes me feel like I’m behind or not enough. There’s also someone I like, and that adds to my stress because I’m scared of rejection and I don’t feel confident in myself. I just want to feel calm, secure, and at peace with myself, but I don’t really know how to get there or how to stop my mind from racing all the time. Has anyone else felt like this? How do you cope with constant anxiety and overthinking?

Ive not had my mother for 9 years now but ive always loved her and for some reason always belifed anything she says is the truth even though it never is.. i usued to wait at the door when she said she was coming to get me and refuse to move an inch with my bag packed beside me till i fell asleep, and she would always leave us no matter what she promised when we woke up she would be gone and i thought it would change because its my monma afterall until one day she decided to leave for good not that i knew that at the time but i fought kicked and screamed for her to stay all i wanted was for her to be with me i didnt care she was an adict i didnt mind that she wasnt with my dad i didnt care if she cooked bad or that she always lied or that she had no teeth i just wanted her to stay.. i never shook that feeling and i don’t understand what this feeling is because i know she did so much to hurt me and my siblings and my dad but i cant help but sit and cry because i miss her and i dont know why i miss someone who never chooses me someone who has hurt me more than everyone else… i dont know what this weight on my chest is but it makes it so hard to breath and i dont know how to fix it..

I have ocd I feel like I'm in my clean pupple if someone touched me or touched anything of my stuff i might cry i really get upset and frustrated and disgusted and i want to hit that person really hard for just touching Just because iam not sure that this person is clean But on the other hand I just feel like that with my family I don't really feel that with my friends Maybe my family is really disgusting and i don't have a problem? Can someone tell me if they had a similar experience

I am a doctor undergraduate i need to talk to a girl any one who i like at first sight (I've never entered a relationship with a girl never talked to a girl comfortably) I can't start a conversation Too shy to start Don't know what to do please i need a solution

Why does the friend you love with all your heart, the one you give everything to, thinking he's the friend you'll spend your life with, betray you and forget everything you did for him? whyy

I had a crush on a guy who studied with me at the same university. After a while, he followed me on Instagram and we started talking, and we were at the beginning of a relationship. After a month, we didn't talk anymore, and I didn't even ask him why. We used to meet outside by chance. He talked to me normally like nothing happened. After two years, he sent me again, but I couldn't talk to him as if we were friends. So I was talking to him coldly and started ignoring his messages, even though I loved him and I regretted it. That's why I decided to gather my strength and talk to him face to face. I made an appointment with him, but a few days before I met him, he died in a car accident. Once, 3 months after his death, I cannot forget him And I am very regretful.. He was the best person I've ever met

I wanted them to notice at least once fhat im not eating like usually I wanted them to notice my dark circles I wanted them to notice that i lost weight That wouldn't change anything but i just wanted them to notice Maybe be some care would fix it

Is it normal that your colleagues asks a lot of questions about ur private life they talk about their private life private relationship it's exhausting 💔 and because all of this non jobs discussion i go home exhausted with headache always Gen Z problems 🫠

I have a bf and he is a gamer he plays all of the time even during our calls I don't want to change anyones behavior or habits cuz i know maybe this is the only vent he has to get rid of stress and idk but i got bored of that I listen but he always talks about his games that i understand nothing about And when we are talking voice call he plays at the same time and be quiet i tell him stories what happened in my day etc..but he doesn't reply and then he tells me im listening i am waiting for u to carry on keep talking just like im in the background

I used to be one of the top students in my class, especially in the mathematics track, but suddenly my academic performance dropped. What’s frustrating is that every time I face an exam paper, I often feel like I actually know how to answer, yet something happens and I can’t respond properly. There was even a test that was very easy—one I had solved before—yet during the exam, I couldn’t answer it at all. I don’t fully understand what is happening to me, and that’s what makes it more difficult. I’m currently seeing a psychologist, and I’ve discovered that I may be dealing with multiple past traumas, which might be affecting my performance. I’m looking for honest advice. Has anyone gone through a similar phase—where they suddenly dropped after being a high achiever—and then managed to return to their previous level? If so, I would really like to know what helped you overcome it.

Idk how to even start writing, im under psychotropics and feeling so annoyed and mad, idk how to live with my family anymore it keeps becoming draining more and even tho i left for good ( i study in another city), but everybody is trashtalking each other my mom talks shit behind my dad's and bro's back my bro does the same and my dad isnt even present to talk or react (he talks to no one), they don't wanna develop im in a very serious state of my life and i really need stability to achieve my goal but the distractions are getting worse everytime even meds arent calming the anger i have, i truly dont know what to do in this case, i can go back to dorms where i have a really bad entourage and go back to bad habits or stay here and keep getting my brain drained it's my future and i can't find a solution or decide whether i stay here or leave again please give me a neutral solution

Hey ,so my family is forcing me to get married, they are so religious and i cannot seem to find a solution to finding a way out of this, im planning a divorce after i get married but im concern that they will interfere, this marriage is eating me out alive ,cannot eat cannot sleep, and if I SAY NO THEY WILL MAKE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL , I WAS THINKING OF SENDING SOMEONE TO TALK WRONGLY ABOUT ME SO THE GUY LEAVERS FOR GOD BIT THEY WILL KNOW IT'S ME AND MAKE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL , I THOUGHT OF RUNNING AWAY BUT THEY WILL HURT MY COUSINS WITH MORE TRUMAS , AND THE PROBLEM IS THAT THE GUY AND HIS FAMILY ARE SO NICE AND SWEET AND I FEEL GUILTY THINKING ABOUT RUNNING THIER SON'S LIFE, TELL ME WHAT TO DOOOO 🫠🫠🫠🫠

Hi everyone hope u had a great great day , so ... there is someone of my family(one of my parents cousin ) that loves me so much and always treat me like a princess and i like him too , but the problem is that he is older than me ( 12 years age gapppp🥲) but he looks too young and his personality is all i wish in a man , so...please gimme ur opinion if its normal to marry someone older than me or nope , be brutal and honesttttttttt

I've searched extensively for online jobs, but all my attempts have failed. I desperately need a work-from-home job. My health isn't good enough to go out in public. I own a laptop and can work as a data entry clerk or customer service representative. I also have some experience in video editing and photo retouching, and I can create songs and music. I have strong communication and sales skills, as I used to work as a hairdresser, Please any one help me

I was talking to someone in Snapchat and i was sharing my location with all of the friends That person started acting weird and like he is obsessed and that made me feel scared actually I was so dumb that i shared with him my phone number and i forget that Today i was sitting in my house till he called me he said he is in my city near to my house and he wants to know which house is ours I was so scared and i didn't know what would happen if he started making problems or something Anyways i was alone at home and i told him that we have too much guest cuz i saw ppl coming in and out in one of our neighbor's house and it's far in case he asked if there is a girl named *** They don't even know me Guys that so stressing like what would he do if he knew where i live

I've lost all motivation, I don't want to do anything anymore, I feel empty and alone. I'm ashamed of myself when I go out; I hide my face and I feel like everyone is staring at me. I'm 22 years old. Every night, I tell myself I'm going to change, but I've never started. I'm too shy; I feel uncomfortable in crowded places and I have very low self-esteem. I smoked cannabis for 5 years, but I haven't smoked for 36 days now because of a bad trip. Even though I'm making some progress, I still feel worthless. I'm 22 years old and my only romantic relationship with girls was in high school when I was 17, or with girls online (long-distance relationships). I'm self-conscious about my weight; I'm very thin and I can no longer approach girls or talk to strangers. I feel lost in a dark hole.

I am in my first year of university, I majored in Turkish language, even though I have no prior knowledge of it and no interest in it. I prefer everything Asian, like Chinese and Korean In the first semester, I wasn't good at Turkish at all, so I started thinking about changing my major. Although I could not study Chinese or Korean as a major, I could stop learning Turkish and enroll in another major, which is social sciences, because I love psychology.And I will study Korean and Chinese at a private school here, and the university is inexpensive. Should I give up Turkish?

Hy everyone wish thst ur all okay I just have a problem that my parents prefer their families which means parents and sblings more than me and I didn't feel okay I fell sad 😢 any help I'll be so grateful if u help me and give me advices

I don't know whats happening to me but i'm in (i don't care)level and i do that about everything even if it was smth about me or smth that might hurt me its like i'm fed up like i'm giving up the same day the same routine nothing ever changes and if smth changed its gonna be so bad like changing from good to awful so idk if its just me or there are people who feel like this soo may allah help us all and bless our hearts and minds he's the only one that know what we have inside what we are dealing with so yeah thats it

Struggling with my mental and physical health. I can't look after myself and so I still have to live with my family. My mum struggles being my carer and criticises me for not getting better, when I'm doing my best but it's just not improving. I'd do anything to get better, it's not a choice to be this way, but everyone (particularly my mum and grandparents I live with) just thinks I'm not trying hard enough. I don't want to be told it gets better. My mental health crisis since 2019 won't end, l've tried everything. Nothing's worked. I’m hopeless. I was wrongly sectioned in 2024 and sent to a psych ward (I wasn’t a danger to myself or others, just needed gentle help and support at home) which destroyed me. I’m hopeless. :(

I need friends, but I fail to find genuine, lasting, and sincere ones. Im a student in University et j'ai fait un transfert récemment ce qui a rendu les choses encore plus compliqué

I feel like im loosing my spark no body loves the energy me I feel like rani f wrong plaxe where nobody is greatful to have me they dont even care about me

There is a professor at my university . Over time, I started to develop an emotional attachment to him. It wasn’t something I planned or expected; it just happened gradually because I appreciated his personality, the way he teaches, and the intellectual connection I felt with him. For a while, I found myself thinking about him a lot and paying attention to small things related to him. Recently, I decided to step back and focus more on myself, my energy, and my studies. Since then, I noticed something interesting: when I stopped chasing the feeling or thinking about him too much, things related to him sometimes appear in my life unexpectedly, like hearing news about him or seeing something connected to him. Now I feel a bit confused about my emotions. Part of me wants to completely detach and move forward in a healthy way, but another part of me still feels curious and emotionally connected. I would really appreciate hearing your perspectives. How can I better understand this attachment and deal with it in a balanced and healthy way without letting it affect my peace of mind or my academic life?

I'm too tired it's like i wanna run away from everything. I'm 19 now nd i fell like I'm older I can't move, I'm just staying in the same place, playing Free fire when i should studying to find my real life, I fell like i have wings nd i want to fly but I'm in the depths of the oceans , i want but i can't, i don't really know the real reason,but i really want to leave my family house nd live a real life , like me , i know nd I'm sure that i deserve to be free ... Nd it's just like I'm tired.

I can talk to myself fluently and I know I have abilities, but when I speak with people I get nervous and feel like my words are boring. I can’t express my ideas clearly.

i don't know where to start and what to talk about its like there is a lot of problems and there none at the same time somtimes i'm thinking why am i depressed for what yes i know i'm always harsh on myself i always blame me for everything even if its not my faulte apologizing every single time just to keep things calm and the worst idea that gets me every night is WHO IS GONNA LIKE AN UGLY BORING UNSOCIAL GUY LIKE ME

Im feeling sooo soooooooo lonely in my life like everyone like me because i have too many talents but no one loves me it's crazy how people only like me, and my second problem is sleeping, i have sharp insomnia apnd it drives me crazy