I have a boyfriend we love each other and all but we fight most of the time and its like over little things he always blames for not doing things the right way and it seems like its always my fault and im sick of it. Ik he loves me but sometimes he's doing too much like overreacting and always making me feel guilty and the thing is he always yells and starts screaming and all and im really reallg tired of it. As much as i love him i wanna leave him too cuz i really cant keep up like this anymore i really just wanna be by myself. Idk how to break up with him tho i dont wanna break his heart he always says if someday i decide to leave him he's gonna kill himself as if he can't live without and bro i wanna go but im so confused and so tired and also so lost. Any advice?
You are dealing with severe emotional manipulation, and his threats of self-harm are meant to trap you in a toxic cycle You are not responsible for his actions or his mental health, and you have every right to leave for your own safety Break up with him safely from a distance, cut off all contact, and tell someone you trust to support you through this
The sooner u do it the sooner he's gonna pass the heartbreak
Whether he knows or he doesn't, this guy is manipulative or just doing some tricks like fliping the table, play victim. Generally any relationship drains you doesn't worth your time, energy or emotions.. The key is to talk maturely for once with him, telling him that what he's doing is exhausting you and if he didn't stop that you will have to end this relationship